Thursday, January 29, 2009

*sigh*

Batman's friend (you know, the one that got married this summer? apparently I didn't blog about it.) called him up yesterday and announced they were pregnant. After only 3 months of "trying." Lovely.
Why is it that I can't *just* be happy for people when they get preggo? He is a really good friend! Why is my happiness for them always laced with bitterness?

Oh right, I can't get (or stay) pregnant...

*sigh*

21 comments:

Ophelia said...

{{{HUGS}}} I'm sorry hun. It's a bitter pill to swallow for sure.

Melissa said...

I've totally been there - I couldn't be happy for anyone. I really do understand. Hopefully your turn is coming up. ((Hugs))

margelina said...

(((hugs))) It's hard to be happy for someone when they get something that you really want yourself. You are only human. I've been there...and I'm getting to that point again because I so badly want another child but it just can't happen right now. Thinking of you!

Coco said...

I wish I had an answer... just know that you aren't alone!

Morgan said...

I'm sorry, I'm always here for you if you want to talk though! :) My email is MorganKev04@aol.com

So, when do yall find out if Batman (what is his REAL name by the way?) passed the AFOQT?

Ella said...

I *so* hear you, and you are not alone - no matter how much I love them, it's nearly impossible (no, actually I think it's actually 100% *impossible* for me at this point) to be happy for pregnant friends. It is normal, but it sucks. I'm sorry.

Steph C said...

Yep girl, I am RIGHT THERE WITH YOU ON THAT. It's so true. I feel like EVERYONE except me is pregnant. It's so easy for everyone. Even people that shouldn't be are preggo! It's like everywhere you turn or when I watch TV, pregnant women everywhere.

It's like when you get a new car and as soon as you buy it, you see it everywhere on the road. Except, this is 10 times worse. Blah. Hang in there, (as I'm sure you are sick of hearing) because I am too. ;o) But seriously, I mean it. ;o)

proudnavywife1027 said...

((Hugs)) I know it's hard to be happy for people who have what you don't. I have faith your turn will come soon.

~*JaYmE*~ said...

(((((HUGS))) I'm w/ya hunny. Its hard to truely be happy for someone when they have what you want so badly.

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Christine said...

I'm just as bitter!!!! I'm sorry!! Glad I'm not alone!!

Carbon said...

I so hope the day comes for you soon, when you can have unmitigated unadulterated joy when hearing about a pregnancy because you have a sticky bun of your own.

Until then, at least one traitor hears where you are coming from and thinks your reactions are entirely valid.

((HUGS))

Teresa said...

Oh God dude I so know what you're saying. Every single one of my IRL friends are pregnant right now...10 to be exact!!! I just want to cry every day. It sucks a big fat one. It'll happen for all of us though, it friggin HAS to!

Kelly said...

(((HUGE HUGS))) I know how you feel! My SIL got pregnant INSTANTLY after my hubby and I had been trying for a while and suffered two losses.. and she just had to make the comment that she just looks at her husband and they get pregnant.. NICE!!!!
It will happen for you! Some blessings just take longer than others!

Kitty said...

Sorry you took the news hard. That happpens when you want something so badly and have been trying to obtain it. Hang in there. I hope you have a nice weekend and I'll check back on you when i return if I'm unable to do so while in FL. Keep up the hardwork with the strength training and such. It will make you feel amazing! Hard work pays off! :)

Chelle said...

It stings pretty bad. I'm Sorry.

((HUGS))

Amy said...

I know how hard this can be. Every time someone tells me they are PG it just breaks my heart. It's a feeling that I am all to familiar with in these 2 1/2 years of TTC.

katie said...

{{{HUGS!}}} I'm so sorry, Tiff. :( It's definitely a bitter pill to swallow, no matter how many times you have to go through it.

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